Cocktail party effect
Overview
The cocktail party effect is the phenomenon where you can selectively pick out your own name or a topic you're interested in, even in a noisy environment full of voices. It was proposed by Colin Cherry in 1953. It's thought to come from a mechanism in which the brain unconsciously filters information and gives priority to processing information related to you.
The cocktail party effect in a question box
A social media timeline overflows with information, like a cocktail party. Among hundreds of posts flowing by, the answers to your question box and topics related to you jump out at you. This works much like the cocktail party effect.
People answering in a question box also find questions that match their interests among a large number of questions. Even when skimming 100 questions, they're unlikely to miss the ones about their area of expertise. This is thought to be because the brain directs attention to information it's interested in.
Noticing where your attention is biased
The cocktail party effect is handy, but it can also lead to a bias in attention. Because you focus only on information related to you, you can overlook other important information.
In a question box, you may notice only the critical questions about you and overlook the friendly ones. This is negativity bias and the cocktail party effect working together. "Criticism of me" tends to be detected first as highly relevant information. Making a habit of deliberately paying attention to friendly questions too is important.